ok when i turn my key i get nothing, battery is new as well as the alternator the starters only a year old. I think it is the stater relay b/c its not making the noise that it would make if it was making. do you all have any other suggestions i would greatly appreciate it.

another guy said jump the starter to see if it was good so i did that and it turned over but no crank i had the key in all the way and turned all the way
do i need some in the car to turn the with the clutch in

Try tapping on the relay and starting, the throw in the solenoid could be sticking. Be more specific about when you tryed to jump it. Did the starter engage, motor turnover slow/fast?

starter engaged, and slow