: How does your wife feel
1962vette Oct 23rd, 07, 07:13 PM After reading Harley's bad news in Body Shop and how his wife was a little less sympathetic than he expected, I'm just wondering how other wive's feel about your Camaro or other collector cars.
My wife helps clean and detail our cars before each show or cruise-in and attends every event with me. She is always the one to remind me of up coming events and encourages me to get ready and go even when I have something else going on. She is the one to pack all the things we need for the event and loads them into the car. She is always buying things to help detail the car such as : Mother's products, McGuires Products, cleaning and polishing cloths, tire shine and anything she finds and thinks will make the cars look better.
I guess I have just been taking her for granted and that most all wives supported their husbands and enjoyed their cars together. She got very upset when I mentioned selling our 57 Chevy convertible as she enjoys the top down ride and it's the only convertible we have. She also drives our 68Camaro BB/ 4 speed.
She would be heartbroken if she damaged one of our cars and would even offer to pay to have it fixed. Think I might just start appreciating her a bit more.
78MBA Oct 23rd, 07, 07:20 PM I haven't found the Camaro of my dreams yet but my wife deserves sainthood for putting up with the search. She spends hours driving to look at car after car with me and gives her support when I seem to be loosing hope. My god she's going to let me spend 2/3 of our savings to buy my dream. Here's to the woman!
camaroman7d Oct 23rd, 07, 08:02 PM My wife is very supportive. She won't drive my cars because she is afraid she will do something wrong. I tell her it's a car and I can repair or replace it. She knows how much time and effort I put into my toys so, she just enjoys going for a ride.
Not all wives are so supportive, count your blessings. I have seen friends have to lie to buy parts, or try to sneak things. I couldn't live like that. As long as the bills are paid and there's food on the table there is no issue with what I do with my time and money. She would rather have me out in the garage, than hanging out in bars, etc...
Let's not forget it's a two way street. I support her in anything she wants to do. I never complaing about her spending money and she doesn't have to ask me for permission to buy things. We communicate and we are both happy.
ad.powell Oct 23rd, 07, 08:05 PM mine feel pretty good.
hereitis67 Oct 23rd, 07, 08:09 PM my wife is very supportive cause my 67 is in her name cause she wanted it. and she picked it out to buy.my son and me redid the whole car except finishing off body and painting car.
67FamilyFun Oct 23rd, 07, 08:10 PM mine feel pretty good.
You must be in Utah...
Rocketrod Oct 23rd, 07, 08:12 PM My wife and do not understand the others passion for their hobby, she is a runner, but the following quote sums it up.
Let's not forget it's a two way street. I support her in anything she wants to do. I never complain about her spending money and she doesn't have to ask me for permission to buy things. We communicate and we are both happy.
joe clance Oct 23rd, 07, 08:13 PM I divorced the bitch and kept the car!
69camarojoe Oct 23rd, 07, 08:20 PM My wife supports my involvement in the hobby with my car and the car shows that I run. She is involved to an extent. She is also the one that after we got settled in our house that told me to get my butt moving and finish my car. She even let me use some of "our" money on the restoration in addition to lots of my $$$
She likes the 69 Camaro, and is happy as long as it's not a 3rd or 4th gen, which I do like. And she really likes the 5th Gen, so maybe we'll have a matching 2009 to my 69 :)
dbx1969 Oct 23rd, 07, 08:36 PM It may sound cold, but I do what I want....pretty much. If she didn't like me working on this car it'd be...tough luck. Seriously. I have my outlets to remain sane, and this is one of them. I pay the bills and keep the house & yard in great shape. You have to have a balance in your life, and that is the key. So yeah, I might get carried away with excessive time spent on the car at times, but it's a short lived "one project at a time" kinda deal. It works.
SY1 Oct 23rd, 07, 09:02 PM The only reason I came home with the 68 SS I currently have is because she went with me. We left without the car and stopped to have lunch before heading home. She made me write a list of pros and cons about the car. She insisted we buy the car, I drove it home the next day. A year later it sits and I have almost no interest in it. I wish I hadn't bought it, never wanted another SS. She knows like all the others before it that I'll sell it and after a few months start looking again for another. Had a lot of Camaros and I'm not happy with any of them for very long. Been doing that for almost 30 years now. She puts up with it and has for a long time. I'm lucky to have her, the wife that is, not the Camaro. The car is easy to replace.
zuma Oct 23rd, 07, 09:12 PM My wife just says, "If that is what you want" I also support her with whatever she wants to spend on her hobbies without saying a word....The kids are grown and on their own, so why not enjoy life and have fun....Of course I haven't told her about me maybe wanting to get a bubbletop....:rolleyes: :)
2x67rs/ss Oct 23rd, 07, 09:37 PM I had the vert before her have talked about selling it but she said NO. We drove 10 hrs to pick up the hot rod when she was 8 months preg. with our son after I purchased it on e bay. She let me blow all my savings building it and goes to every race and videos every pass. My first wife hated the vert and hated car shows. I am grateful every day for meeting my current wife.Lord knows she puts up with alot! I tell her I am looking for a third one and she just looks at me like I am crazy and says" Its your money":thumbsup:
yellow69RS Oct 23rd, 07, 10:22 PM My wife puts up with me just the way I am. She is not so crazy about the dust created with my hobies tho and has convinced me to build that dream garage I've been talking about.:hurray:
Jeff
bucks69 Oct 23rd, 07, 10:27 PM I divorced the bitch and kept the car!
fell outta my chair laughin when I read that. You never quite know what you going to read on here... lol
SixtyAte Oct 24th, 07, 03:45 AM Back in the 70's my wife enjoyed my 1951 Dodge Business Coupe ,1965 Impalla SS and 1966 SS Malibu . She was ok with my 1955 Belair, 1957 Belair, 1974 Nova SS and my 1957 Chopped and channeled Chevy Pickup in the 80's.
In the 90's, she hated my 1970 Chevelle SS and my 1955 Belair. In the 2000's ...She is again ok with my Camaro but that is about it. I figure its the damm Soaps on day and night changing these women into man hobby haters :) . We all know how these women get about their soaps..right. I am supportive to her by asking " What ..watching Stupid Stories again" :)
Kev
bil1024 Oct 24th, 07, 03:54 AM SHe could care less. No a/c not comfortable
ed mccann Oct 24th, 07, 05:15 AM My wife ownes our 67 rs conv. She is more into the hobbie then me these days We got offered big money at one one the local shows and she would not sell. I have a green light to do what ever I want to the car, money is no problem in her opinion, after all it is hers. big block 502, triple black with heated seats and a cd player
steve's 69ss Oct 24th, 07, 06:17 AM My wife actually set up the deal on my car. Her neighbor growing up was into buying any muscle cars he could find. All I did was pay him monthly till it was paid off. He has passed away since then (cancer) . His wife has sold almost everything he had left but a few special ones. My wife is awesome about it. The only thing she wants is houndstooth interior in it.
DougP Oct 24th, 07, 06:23 AM My wife supports my "habit" 100% :yes: -- she even likes to get her smart-*** comments in every now and then because she listens to some of the crap my buddies tell her around the garage -- its all in good fun :D -- and by the way, she wants me to get new wheels and tires for the Camaro as a Christmas gift :thumbsup:
blue ss Oct 24th, 07, 06:41 AM Im lucky my wife originaly when I got the car, she didnt understand why it all had to come apart and be spread all over the house. A year later she got the house back I got my car together. After a year of living that way she was tired of it I was tired of the coments like ,
(why is there a bumper under the bed? and I cant set the table with that wire harness there,and I didnt see that emblem before I sat down, . Now She is the one that wants to go to shows she loves spending the day that way. Its been a great family thing for us. She still wont drive it, afraid something could go wrong and the repair could mean loosing her house to piles of parts everywhere I think.
Frankrentef Oct 24th, 07, 06:50 AM Mine is terrific! A few times we've been in a financial pinch, life's unexpected things like the transmission in our Honda van blowing up (another story,) kids etc. and she's always stuck to her guns when I've offered to sell my car to make life a little less tight on the finances.
Her response is "NO, stop suggesting that"! She states every man deserves one passion / hobby in life and she knows how long and hard I searched before I could find a first generation Camaro that I could afford that didn't have trees growing through the front seat :)
Guess I'll keep her!
click Oct 24th, 07, 07:35 AM Clickette deserves some kind of award for putting up with this passion but she gets just as much fun out of riding around and seeing the :thumbsup: from other folks. She carries our Camaro business cards in her purse and gives them to people that start to talk about old cars. If the weather is good, she is first to ask 'can we go for a ride?'.
Plus she looks great, just like she did when we got married 28 years ago. Cant say that about me ;)
69pace Oct 24th, 07, 08:32 AM Well I think my wife looks at my cars as a future 401K supplement if we don't survive putting our two teenagers through college..so far they seem to be safe from the budget ax..sooo, I guess that means she supports me with my habit. I don't drink, gamble or do drugs..I just do CAM 2. What's not for her to like ;)
68IslTeal Oct 24th, 07, 09:48 AM Mine believes cars are merely for getting from point a to point b, or so thats what she tells me. However I notice when it was time to get her a new car, she didn't want a saturn or a jetta, NOo she had to have a volvo! I did make it a point to point that out to her, and periodicly have to when she gets ill with my spending on car projects. :)
Luv her to death, but sometimes.... I have learned though she will never care for my car hobby, its even cost me more than few sweet rides to date, example:
72 vette ragtop - I love the metal bumper vettes, got a deal on one needing engine work, so we rebuilt the engine and it was cherry! I had the toy I wanted and was done looking in my mind. However 1st run at spring came and decided to take it out to the mountains with the top down. The wife had not ridden i nthe car yet as we just finished it up that winter. Well 30 minutes into the trip I had to turn around because of:
1. Too loud - she didn't like the sidepipes
2. Smelly - The fumes / spent gas smell of a v8
3. Sits to low - didnt like sitting so low that every car that passed by could look down and see her
4. Wind/Sun - when we got home the tops of her legs were slightly sunburned
So she refused to ride in the car ever again! I kept it for another 6months before finally giving up and letting it go, no fun if the wife is not into going out for a crusie here and there.
BonzoHansen Oct 24th, 07, 02:40 PM My wife says at least she knows where I am. And she trusts I won't sell the family out to buy parts.
67 Plum Oct 24th, 07, 04:06 PM My wife bought the 67 for me.I have known about the car since the early 80s and missed a chance to buy it in 2000.When it went up for sale in 2002 she said that I had wanted it for 20 years lets go get it.Now she wont let me sell it.
As for how the wife feels she feels real good to me.Hope no one else is feeling her.
Arch Stanton Oct 24th, 07, 05:05 PM Wife understands I need an outlet. Sold the Suzuki Hayabusa (GSX1300r) -very fast bike- before I splatter myself somewhere at 130 plus, also I was bored on the bike, been there, done that. Would prob get arrested/hurt/both sometime soon if I keep doing this......
Always been a gearhead since maybe age 5 when my dad floored his '65 Electra and made such an awesome sound. Think it had a 403 nailhead.
Have to spread out purchases so it affects us minimally. Like, not running up a big balance on my credit card, but most purchases are just fine.
She's not so much a hardcore car person as I am per se, but she understands and likes a lot more now than when we first met. She understands this hobby/passion of mine is here to stay, so have a little fun.
She's not really into spinning wrenches at all, but will help out if it's a job that needs 2 peoples hands from time to time. Thats a lot more than what some wives will do.....
Hey! She can drive a 3 on the tree! Learned that on a '62 Bel Air! Was made fun of in high school driving that, but the people who had no car quickly shut up when faced with the fact she had wheels when 5.0 Mustangs were the thing to have!
jeffafd Oct 24th, 07, 06:26 PM I've been building cars for 25 years, my wife has been with me for 20 of those and has always been supportive.
Our current 69 Convertible was bought for her in 1987 and It's been in pieces since the day I picked it up (Flatbed, 2 pickups, and about 30 boxes).
Its actually getting painted this week and will be on the road next season .... She's been very patient with me doing the rotisserie resto, but she knows it will all be worth it when she gets behind the wheel. :yes:
mbmmca Oct 24th, 07, 08:20 PM Uh guys? I'm the wife and it's my car. Most of you know where we are now...I'm currently flying solo in the garage (God help us!) but not in life. Will it change? We can only hope. I did manage to come to a temporary decision. I AM NOT SELLING! Guess I'm gonna learn this welding thing....Any tips?:thumbsup:
z10kl Oct 24th, 07, 08:46 PM I had the vert before her have talked about selling it but she said NO. We drove 10 hrs to pick up the hot rod when she was 8 months preg. with our son after I purchased it on e bay. She let me blow all my savings building it and goes to every race and videos every pass. My first wife hated the vert and hated car shows. I am grateful every day for meeting my current wife.Lord knows she puts up with alot! I tell her I am looking for a third one and she just looks at me like I am crazy and says" Its your money":thumbsup:
Third car or wife?
camaro_69 Oct 25th, 07, 08:02 AM My wife allways says: I prefer that you spend money and time in your camaro that girls and parties :thumbsup:
akxtreme Oct 25th, 07, 12:33 PM I bought my 69 right before we got engaged. I knew if I didn't, future purchases would have to be cleared through her, and it would be a while after the wedding and combining of bills before that would happen. Plus it was steal. I think is the main reason she resented the car for the first year of our marriage. She isn't a big fan of the camaro, :( she wants a GTO convertible, chevelle, charger, or something along those lines. She keeps threatening to sell the car (jokingly... I hope!) But now that the restoration is slowly coming along and the interior is done, she is more of a fan. I told her she could drive it (occasionally) until I get it painted. I think I shot myself in the foot! She likes the car more now, but I don't know if she will ever let me get in painted now! :sad:
68RS-SS Oct 25th, 07, 01:38 PM Well they say a picture holds a million words. This is my wife smiling after she just ran the 1/4 mile with me (oh ya, she's the one in the car - not the guy with the beard, ha, ha,) She'll help me when I need a hand and I can trust her to drive the car (has a 5spd.) anywhere. She's not afraid to step on it either but I still need to show her how to do a good burnout. http://i227.photobucket.com/albums/dd304/willyb68/CamaroDrags2.jpg
http://i227.photobucket.com/albums/dd304/willyb68/CamaroDrags5.jpg
oh ya and she can also cook!! :yes:
PROZ11 Oct 25th, 07, 02:48 PM Guess I'm in the minority here.... My wife absolutely HATES my car and she's not afraid to mention it. (I think she rather I had a girlfriend..lol) She's vowed to never so much as sit her butt in it, and to date she has kept that promise. Forget about cruise in it. Now I realize my car isn't your "normal" car and can be a bit intimidating, but I was a gear head long before I met her. I had a Pro Street 57 Chevy when we met so she knew I was a "car guy." She did go for one or two cruises in the 57 but didn't like it a bit. O well, I don't seem to have a problem getting someone else to ride shotgun. Maybe she'll warm up to it now that it's almost done. I doubt it. She will however go out for a ride with me on my motorcycle and loves it???? I can't figure it out.
jeffafd Oct 25th, 07, 04:40 PM Mark - Blower looks sweet, love the setup of the car.
cencal69 Oct 26th, 07, 09:19 AM This topic is well represented by great stories of different perspectives. I married my wife a year and a half ago after a short courtship. I knew she was the one, and I was wise enough to not let her go. She basically saved my life from drinking and got me focused on living right. I bought my 69 in high school, drove it, then stored it for the next 10 years. After mentioning it a few times, my wife insisted I get it out of storage, and begin wrenching on it. I got it home and have began the disassembly process. Then a wrecked 97 Camaro with a LT1/T56 became available for cheap, and she said we can barely afford it. So we bought it. She helped me pull the engine and transmission late in the night, was genuinely interested in the process, and we had a drink afterwards.
Now we are no silver spoon kids, by any means. I am self employed and work roughly 12-14 hour days and weekends so we can pay bills, and she can go to school and get her masters degree. We live very, very simple lives and go "with-out" a lot at this current time. My wife is very supportive of what I do, and I her. I have mentioned once that we could sell the Camaro to pay bills, and she verbally assaulted me on "how could I even think that?". It is the best feeling in the world to have a partner that has your back 100% and believes in you. It make take a while, but one day we'll be able to enjoy the Camaro after over a decade of hibernation.
chuck69ss Oct 26th, 07, 12:55 PM Uh guys? I'm the wife and it's my car. Most of you know where we are now...I'm currently flying solo in the garage (God help us!) but not in life. Will it change? We can only hope. I did manage to come to a temporary decision. I AM NOT SELLING! Guess I'm gonna learn this welding thing....Any tips?:thumbsup:
As an aside, glad to hear that you're not getting rid of the car MaryBeth. Sometimes this hobby turns into an obsession though and a break is needed. Maybe your husband will be back on board after some time away. In the meantime, if you're not comfortable welding yourself, find some other things that need to be done.
Sorry about getting off-point folks...
GMJoe Oct 26th, 07, 02:20 PM My wife is great about all things motorized, she encouraged me to get my Harley, and my Camaro and put up with about 16 yrs of both my son and I racing moto cross and all the expenses involved. She loves going out in the Camaro but wont even drive it with me in there for fear of messing it up.( this doesn't exactly break my heart :yes:)
She knows how long Ive waited to get an other first gen so Id say she is very respectful of my toys.....
Peter Constantine Oct 26th, 07, 02:57 PM Paula is very supportive of my hobby.She doesn't spin wrenches but never says a word about money or time spent in the shop.Of course,some of that time and $$ is spent on her ragtop and her Harley!
2x67rs/ss Oct 26th, 07, 06:32 PM Third car or wife?
LOL Both of those would be my money but one of them would take all my Money:yes:
flat350 Oct 26th, 07, 07:01 PM My wife actually bought the 68 for me , always there if I need a hand . It's like I'm happy so she's happy too and she does have her hobbies also .
XLexusTech Oct 26th, 07, 08:03 PM My wife supports me (My god I can believe I just said that) In actuality she resents the time I spend on the car.
She can always always always find some project that needs to be done or finished before I can spend a few hours on the car. Although some may think it would be great for the spouse to get into this hobby with them. For me its my "Cave" my solitude my unwind mechanism. The newest "supportive" thing she does is tag along to help me shop @ the swap meets. Translation TO supervise any $$ spent
Hope she comes around soon...
JimM Oct 26th, 07, 08:14 PM My wife doesn't share my passion for these cars by any means, but she does at least try to understand it. She never gripes about the money I spend on it, and I don't spend what we can't afford. I wish she would go to shows and ride in it more, and I'm currently trying unsuccessfuly to convince her to come out to Yellowstone with me next summer. She says we can't leave the 2 older boys home alone for 2 weeks, they'll trash the place. I agree regarding Jake, but am hopeful he'll move out by then. Dan can handle it.
If she won't go, I'm gonna saddle up with Brian (10) and hit the highway, just us. "Boo" is always up for anything!
Microgiant Oct 26th, 07, 10:12 PM OK heres another of the ones youve all been waiting for. Im surprised to see so many supportive wives here. but I guess if they arent supportive you dont have a car... That was the case for me for a very long time but no more!
If my car were done, Garnet Red, Black stripes, Vinyl Top Chrome Mag wheels and I parked it next to a red saturn at a dealership then sent her out to get something she probably wouldnt be able to tell the 2 cars apart. She doesnt understand my love, she says my focus should be entirely on her and our kids and that my distractions are tantamount to neglect. I work 40-48 hrs a week and I pay the bills. And I do spend time with them. So when she was not supportive of my idea to get a Camaro I reminded her that we in fact got divorced back in 1999 and if she didnt like it that was just too bad lol :waving:. ( I know, strange situation, but works to my advantage often lol) A month earlier I bought her a brand new Toyota Minivan nicely equipped for her and my kids safe roadtrip to Colorado, an upgrade from the Chrysler we had. She can be particularly selfish imo. Maybe I will meet some nice woman who likes cars at a car show because she says she will not be going to any. :rolleyes:
http://www.easymoney69.com/Images/femalebrain.jpg
Rob69RSSS Oct 27th, 07, 09:26 AM My wife is fairly supportive. She wants the camaro finished and i'm sure she thinks about that while doing all of her shopping (not for a moment). As for helping work on it, letting me use the computer to get on TC is about as far as she is willing to go. She used to like to ride in my 76 TA, but it was to much of a hotrod for her (she didn't like to drive it). I'm hoping the camaro will be something my family can enjoy with me.
We have a plan. She is about to finish nursing school. After we pay off a few things, it is supposed to be my turn.
The current score card is... Sold my 73 TA before my daughter was born (wouldn't trade her for anything). I sold my my 76 TA to help pay bills while my wife is in school. My wife will not even let me think of selling the camaro, that means a lot since she knows what it means to me. I tell her if I don't get to do my camaro soon (i've only had it 21 years), i'm backing a cement truck up to her car and filling it full (I would only be punishing myself since she prefers to drive my truck)!
Truth is I'm living the dream (wife and daughter), finishing my camaro would be the icing on the cake.
67camaroprotour Mar 7th, 10, 12:41 PM I'm very lucky, my wife has a 69 Z28 I'm restoring. I spend approx 20 Hours a week in the garage with NO complaints. I also have a 68 I'm doing upon completing the 69, so were in for the long haul. We are planning on doing some cruising and shows together as a shared hobby. She couldn't be more supportive of my hobby and for that I am grateful. Thanks
Brandon
rs69conv Mar 7th, 10, 12:49 PM Depends on the time of the month.......... and how much time i have spent out of town working.
JimmyC Mar 7th, 10, 01:18 PM Im pretty lucky this go round! :D Mine never complains about me working on mine or how much I spend on either of my 3 69's. Soon as I finish the current project I think I'll build her a 67 Camaro or Nova to match her birthday.
:beers: Jim
cluxford Mar 7th, 10, 02:12 PM Mine believes cars are merely for getting from point a to point b, or so thats what she tells me. However I notice when it was time to get her a new car, she didn't want a saturn or a jetta, NOo she had to have a volvo! I did make it a point to point that out to her, and periodicly have to when she gets ill with my spending on car projects. :)
Luv her to death, but sometimes.... I have learned though she will never care for my car hobby, its even cost me more than few sweet rides to date, example:
72 vette ragtop - I love the metal bumper vettes, got a deal on one needing engine work, so we rebuilt the engine and it was cherry! I had the toy I wanted and was done looking in my mind. However 1st run at spring came and decided to take it out to the mountains with the top down. The wife had not ridden i nthe car yet as we just finished it up that winter. Well 30 minutes into the trip I had to turn around because of:
1. Too loud - she didn't like the sidepipes
2. Smelly - The fumes / spent gas smell of a v8
3. Sits to low - didnt like sitting so low that every car that passed by could look down and see her
4. Wind/Sun - when we got home the tops of her legs were slightly sunburned
So she refused to ride in the car ever again! I kept it for another 6months before finally giving up and letting it go, no fun if the wife is not into going out for a crusie here and there.
Man,I think you are married to my wife.
Went to look at a 55 BB. Pulled up, before I even got out of the car she says "I am never ever getting in that thing, people will just look at us" - we didn't buy it. She lets me build my 68, and it's a long expensive build. All I get told is, well the holiday house is next buddy so start saving and if I need to change blinds 3 times or fittings like you change your mind on car parts, then just stand by and say yes. Which I fully plan to do.....
1969 RS/SS DROPTOP Mar 7th, 10, 02:22 PM 28 years ago i turned my wife into a dragracing/camaro lover. Had camaro's then and still have them today. Still have the wife too. :) Oh yeah, still go dragracing as well.
hirpms Mar 7th, 10, 06:18 PM My wife hates my car. She hasn't ridden in it. But, she knows I love it. She bought me
wheels for christmas. So it's not that bad. She does her thing, I do mine. I can't chew gum, eat almonds, or popcorn around her either. She's kinda like Angela on the office.
I am one of the lucky guys my wife is great, family is number one as everyone knows...i have 2 ol heaps on the go...my camaro and my 68 p/u....i love all 3 of em!!!!...
Kelly
Z28 Mark Mar 7th, 10, 07:42 PM No wife so I don't have to worry...
hpcam Mar 7th, 10, 08:39 PM My wife went with me when I looked at my 69 three years ago.
When we were looking at it she said, you aren't going to by that piece of sh#t are you? In here defense it did look like a piece of Sh#@.
She wasn't saying that S word when we were driving around in it today. :)
AlexFolino Mar 7th, 10, 09:49 PM I too have no wife. However i do have a gf. She lives in the barn until i get money saved up to work on her.
71maligreen Mar 8th, 10, 11:23 AM The only reason I came home with the 68 SS I currently have is because she went with me. We left without the car and stopped to have lunch before heading home. She made me write a list of pros and cons about the car. She insisted we buy the car, I drove it home the next day. A year later it sits and I have almost no interest in it. I wish I hadn't bought it, never wanted another SS. She knows like all the others before it that I'll sell it and after a few months start looking again for another. Had a lot of Camaros and I'm not happy with any of them for very long. Been doing that for almost 30 years now. She puts up with it and has for a long time. I'm lucky to have her, the wife that is, not the Camaro. The car is easy to replace.
Sounds like you enjoy the hunt more than the car!!!
I have a friend with the same problem and he has lost lots of cash trying to sell fast to buy the next best deal etc....
71maligreen Mar 8th, 10, 11:26 AM bought the wife a 68 vette convertible so she loves swap meets and car shows now and loves to drive her vette and can appreciate my 68 camaro and why i have it now!!
she never asks for money or for me to sell my toys as i would tell her to sell the vette and she would say hell no!!
okiemark Mar 8th, 10, 12:11 PM I drove my '69 over to the EX-WIFE'S house the other day to drop off my daughter. Her new husband's son had a bunch of his friends (teenagers) over. they went crazy for my car. the ex-wife and the new husband just went in the house while the boys checked out my car. It was a beautiful moment.
prostreet69camaro Mar 8th, 10, 02:15 PM I have a very supportive wife also. Our dates in high school was at my buddies garage and if I got my GTO running we went to Frisch's. So I trained her early. She likes cars also and goes to all the shows with me. We plan our vacations around the car and car shows,, well most of them. I have had my car 30 years and been working on it all those years and she will complain about it sometimes but that is usually when the kids were younger. It is really nice to have a wife that likes cars.
Only bad thing is she knows alot about them now and we argue over whats wrong with them and I hate to say it but she's usually right. Well life goes on. Hell I guess I am losing my memory getting old. lol
MrDanB Mar 8th, 10, 10:42 PM I think building my car had a bit to do with my divorce a few years back... Now that I've been single a while, I wouldn't change a thing... :D:D:D
Dano:beers:
Richio1 Mar 8th, 10, 11:12 PM Looks like I'm in the minority...wife could really care less... doesnt bitch about it as much as my other buddies wife does about his car but she has zero interest in it. She road in it once, will likely never again.
Complains all the time that it is too loud and smells too much... she just doesnt get it.
Any of your wives have any hot sisters??? LOL
cdunson Mar 9th, 10, 07:51 AM Mine loves it. She helped with my 69 project and now we're building a 66 Nova for her. She wasn't really a car nut before meeting me but now likes to go to car shows, watch all the car related tv shows.. even tolerates Barret Jackson for a couple hours at a time ; ).
Pro-Street69Camaro468 Mar 9th, 10, 06:04 PM My wife likes it all shows,cruiz ins,OC car week end but she does like her 2010 Camaro better than my 69.I just lost a buddy that has a 66 Chevy II and a 41 Willy's I am not sure if his wife liked the car stuff or what her effin problem was but she had him shot and it realy pisses me off.Her whole family was envolved in killing him I liked her but I hope she gets the chair.He was a great guy RIP Ray Porter I miss you more than my deceased brothers.
1968guppy Mar 11th, 10, 09:52 AM She has had different feelings and at times I don't know what they are. We can spend hours talking about how the project is going and her questions keep coming in and at other times she wants nothing to do with it and feels there is too much being placed on the car and not the family. Right now, the project is deep in it's track and she is anxious and frustrated. She did not imagine how much work it would take and feels it is endless. I know she shares the same values as me on the car and that this experience will strengthen us both.
67motorcat Mar 11th, 10, 04:30 PM She doesn't mind much at all how much time or money I throw at the car.Through the years and all the cars I have built she knows thats what I like to do in my free time.I do balance family time with Car time though.My boys used to help in the garage a bit as they were growing up.My kids are now grown so Iv'e got more time and money to blow...:DShe likes to ride in them and goes to the shows with me,but sometimes brings a book:rolleyes:..
She just says everything is all so shiny and pretty:rolleyes:
dschribs Mar 11th, 10, 06:17 PM "If she didn't like me working on this car it'd be...tough luck."
Amen to that.
Cam6t9 Mar 11th, 10, 06:51 PM Mine has no idea also,,, i asked her to take a ride in it with me,,she had me going to a blind store, a baby store, then off to a food mart. like i was some kind of classic taxi cab... i got even with her i made her walk back to the camaro ,i parked it far away and sat in it,so no shopping carts made any impressions,,but for the most she can take it or leave it, i've had alot of cars with her. she just goes with the flow.
SY1 Mar 11th, 10, 09:44 PM Sounds like you enjoy the hunt more than the car!!!
I have a friend with the same problem and he has lost lots of cash trying to sell fast to buy the next best deal etc....
Tony I think you hit the nail on the head! I hunt is a passion of mine. I spend a lot of time on the road and I'm always looking for another first gen. Once the deal is made and the car is home after a week or so it's almost a little sad that I've now limited myself to the car I've picked up. Maybe having more than one at a time would help?
click Mar 12th, 10, 08:40 AM My bride gets right into our camaro if I need a smaller person to get into tight places... :D she loves crusing and will help with cleaning if I ask her. She's my best friend.
http://www.carsbyjim.com/storage/MiscStuff/sueintrunka.JPG
Calpantera Mar 12th, 10, 10:01 AM My wife has yet to even ride in my Camaro and I always feel guilty when I work on it or spend money on it. She won't let me sell it though, so that must mean something. :)
Lexlas Mar 12th, 10, 10:23 AM After reading Harley's bad news in Body Shop and how his wife was a little less sympathetic than he expected, I'm just wondering how other wive's feel about your Camaro or other collector cars.
My wife helps clean and detail our cars before each show or cruise-in and attends every event with me. She is always the one to remind me of up coming events and encourages me to get ready and go even when I have something else going on. She is the one to pack all the things we need for the event and loads them into the car. She is always buying things to help detail the car such as : Mother's products, McGuires Products, cleaning and polishing cloths, tire shine and anything she finds and thinks will make the cars look better.
I guess I have just been taking her for granted and that most all wives supported their husbands and enjoyed their cars together. She got very upset when I mentioned selling our 57 Chevy convertible as she enjoys the top down ride and it's the only convertible we have. She also drives our 68Camaro BB/ 4 speed.
She would be heartbroken if she damaged one of our cars and would even offer to pay to have it fixed. Think I might just start appreciating her a bit more. Wow ! Dude where did you find such a women ? If you ever break up be sure to recommend her my way, lol .. My wife don't even touch my car, she just gives me this look like " one day i'm gonna sell this car and get me some hard wood floors in my home ! " Lol ..
ps. but on the serious, she supports my classic car habit, she even went the extra mile and helped my financially buy my 68 Camaro. I was gonna buy a Mustang for half price what the camaro is worth but she stopped me and said no go for your dream car and gave me the other half to pay for it. Thanks to my wife i'm happy with my 68 Camaro.
Lexlas Mar 12th, 10, 10:25 AM I divorced the bitch and kept the car!
LMAO !!! Too funny ! LMAO !! :beers:
captcanuck68 Mar 12th, 10, 10:26 AM Check the will, Bill!
Mine's...ambivilant...it's there...OK. She will go to a meet, but there's better be a mall or such close by, eh? Plus, she likes to ride in it...but I have had to replace the floor boards on her side at least five times...that brake pedal doesn't work too well on her side. Other than get the occasional reminder what the speed limit is (my built in speed warning device) she hasn't really complained my continual ongoing restore. It's amazing how many deals/bargains that we married guys get when out shopping for the Camaro.:)
Eke Mar 12th, 10, 10:59 AM When I first met my wife I had so many different cars she never knew what I was going to show up in. We went on our honeymoon in my Camaro.
After 30 years, 2 kids, college and grad school I was down to only my Camaro which had been neglected due to lack of funds. I used to remind her that I have had the Camaro longer than I've had her!
When I started the rebuild she was glad I was getting it done (I think mostly because it will one day be my son's). After the extended time and now being over budget she is not quite as supportive. If I can just get her to open that purse long enough to finish the project I think she'll enjoy riding in it.
She used to say when I died she was just going to dig a big hole, put me behind the wheel of my Camaro and bury me in it! Now, after we've spent all this time and money, she says she is just going to dig that hole big enough for me and she's going to keep the car! :D
sako Mar 12th, 10, 12:26 PM My wife loves my (our) Camaro. But right now she does not like me very much because i need to rebuild(or new 383) engine. She has a reason to be, because we just had another baby. Family first right guys? its going to be a long summer:mad:
71maligreen Mar 12th, 10, 12:47 PM Tony I think you hit the nail on the head! I hunt is a passion of mine. I spend a lot of time on the road and I'm always looking for another first gen. Once the deal is made and the car is home after a week or so it's almost a little sad that I've now limited myself to the car I've picked up. Maybe having more than one at a time would help?
i like the hunt almost as much as the car but that is why i will look at 40-50 cars before i make a purchase, It has cost me some good deals i probably should have bought but it has gained me some real nice american muscle at some serious real world prices as well!!
I usually keep 1 or 2 cars i like (3 at the moment) and buy one to fix up a lil and flip that way there is a new one in the stable every other yr or so to keep things fresh.
heres a 7? nova i picked up for 2500 interior was from a 84 monte and engine was junk, used seats from a 79 camaro and nova rear seat new carpet and a 500 dollar engine that was rebuilt from a truck with an wire fire in cab and sold car for 8500
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/Tonystoys123/Chevelle%20pics/57fb3be5.jpg
71maligreen Mar 12th, 10, 12:52 PM 69 i bought with a salvage title as it was scraped in the mid 70`s from front end damage new front subframe and clip was installed before i got it but it had a junk 272 v8 and a shelled out 350 turbo, 4000 cash in 95 played with it put a rebuilt 350/350 in it 3000 total and drove it like i stole it for 6yrs then sold for 11,500
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/Tonystoys123/Chevelle%20pics/007_4A_0001.jpg
71maligreen Mar 12th, 10, 12:54 PM sorry back to the wives, i guess thats why my wife dosent care as i usually get my money back plus and she dosent have to pay but still gets to drive them!!!
Alabamcam Mar 12th, 10, 01:55 PM Blessed , I have my best friend and her and my girls help with resto's here and there. She's helped with more engine/trans installs that all my friends together. We check our emotions at the shop door though if you know what I mean.
We are all fortunate whether we admit it or not and Moma knows it.
KMG69 Mar 12th, 10, 01:59 PM She feels soft and smooth....:thumbsup:
DougP Mar 13th, 10, 07:20 AM My wife is a saint - she's been putting up with me and the fellas for about 30 years. Between hot rods, playing golf, watching football, attending various sporting events, and the consumption of numerous adult libations :beers: :beers: she has always been supportive and will qualify to be at the front of the line at the pearly gates -- she has and always will be the one for me (beside the Camaro :D)
69Z28 Mar 14th, 10, 08:23 PM My wife is the one who told me there was a 69 Z28 for sale by the main hwy going thru Delaware. How do ya think I feel about her? :D AND she feeeeeels good too!!:thumbsup:
Lexlas Mar 14th, 10, 11:35 PM She feels soft and smooth....:thumbsup:
Lol .. Pix please ! :hurray:
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